The Components
Once you understand how a triangle works and that each component supports the other two, making them one triangle, the question in building a Relationship Triangle is what those components are. The components that make up the Relationship Triangle are not limited to any particular relationship; these components are truly basic and foundational characteristics of human beings.
*Trust: \ˈtrəst\ noun 1 a: assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something b: one in which confidence is placed2 a: dependence on something future or contingent : ): trustworthiness5 a charge or duty imposed in faith or confidence or as a condition of some relationship (2): something committed or entrusted to one to be used or cared for in the interest of another
Trust is placing your faith in another person’s character and consistency. Trust is not something that is quickly given without regard, but something that has to be built between people. As a person consistently follows through on their word and actions with sincere intentions trust is built.
Simply put: Someone you trust is someone you put your confidence in.
*Respect: \ri-ˈspekt\ noun an act of giving particular attention : consideration3 a: high or special regard : esteem b: the quality or state of being esteemed cplural : expressions of respect or deference
Respect is giving proper consideration, esteem, and honor to another person or thing. Respect is something that has to be earned by the person wanting to be respected and often the best way to earn it is by the act of giving respect. When you respect someone you consider them in your decisions.
Simply put: Someone you respect is someone you consider in decisions or esteem their opinion. They are people you would not want to disappoint or embarrass.
*Communication: \kə-ˌmyü-nə-ˈkā-shən\ noun1: an act or instance of transmitting2 a: information communicated a: a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior also : exchange of information b: personal rapport: to convey knowledge of or information about :make known: to reveal by clear signs to transmit information, thought, or feeling so that it is satisfactorily received or understood.
Communication styles differ from person to person and must be learned to be effective. There are multiple levels, styles, and perceptions of communication. The key is realizing that communication is transmitting and receiving information. The more we engage in two-way communication the stronger our ability to understand our successes and challenges with one another will be.
Simply put: Someone you communicate with is someone who gives and receives information with you.
These components alone are critical characteristics that anyone can build internally to make themselves better or utilize to evaluate the potential benefits or obstacles in having a relationship with another person. However, these components in a Relationship Triangle are only as strong as what holds them together where they connect.
*Definitions from the Merriam-Webster On-Line Dictionary